Any tips to make your better half feel appreciated?? im not sure if i do enough for mine?

You know what? You're BOTH doing a great job of expressing your appreciation for each other, and are taking great care of one another. The two best things in your letter is that you want to be careful before you say "I do" to ANYONE, and don't agree to anything you're personally not ready to commit to, and that you both want so badly to do things and be even more of a comfort and a help to each other. It's the desire to take care of one another that is driving the success of your relationship Also, along with that desire is your unwillingness to rush into anything. If it's the real deal, it can stand the test of time, and you're a wise young woman to know this. Stay true to your beliefs and your instincts, keep the open loving heart you've been given open and generous and decent, more so every day, and you've basically swept the pools. I think you're doing super well! Don't fix what ain't broken.